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This made me feel feelings. LOTS OF THEM

This made me feel feelings. LOTS OF THEM

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Vic Dicara (of hardcore band 108) breaks down Krsna Conscious

Below is a re-post from the guitarist of one of my favorite hardcore bands, 108.
Vic is a musician and devotee of KRSNA (Krishna).
This faith continues to intrigue me because I see SO many paralells between the way that Vic talks about his understanding of KRSNA and the Vedas and the way I understand Christ and the Gospel. The two aren’t totally congruent, but I still feel really enriched by reading about Dicara’s faith.

Visit his blog at http://vicd108.wordpress.com

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How do you explain Krsna Consciousness to people with no idea what it is?

About 15 minutes ago a respectable friend of mine told me that he is going to a university to explain Krsna-Consciousness to a group of students with little to no prior exposure to it or even to global religions. He asked for my suggestion on a class outline. Here is what I came up with.

1) What is the meaning of life?

Let them offer suggestions.

Then say “Raso Vai Sah” and “Ananda Moya Abhyasat” and explain that Vedic wisdom says that the meaning of life is to relish joy and bliss – to be happy.

Suggest that the validity of this answer is self-evident.

2) Explain the 4 goals of life, as different milestones or facets of understanding how to attain that goal.

Kama – happiness through sensations, Artha – happiness through security (to stabilize our ability to enjoy quality sensations), Dharma – happiness through morality (to cooperate with one another so that no one wants, and thus no one steals our enjoyable sensations), and Moksha – happiness through enlightenment (to attain an enjoyable sensation beyond the confinement of this world, i.e. time).

3) Explain the 5th goals of life, Prema.

After exploring all 4 goals we evolve to understand that joy does not come by having enjoyment, rather it comes by giving enjoyment. Prema means, love, and love is the desire to give enjoyment to the beloved.

4) Explain the proper vishaya for prema.

Once we understand love it also has to evolve to find the most joyous and blissful person to love (“Vishaya”). First we will love a limited person, but (a) that excludes other persons, and (b) that person is temporary and (c) that person has faults. Eventually to fully realize the meaning of life we seek love of God.

5) Explain the 5 stages of love of God.

At first love of god is merely an awestruck wonder at God’s position – shanta rasa. Then it can evolve to actually interacting with that awe-inspiring and worshipable being – dasya rasa.

These are the common conceptions of God, but beyond that are secret conceptions that are rare. The 3rd stage is where love of Godhead evolves so that we interact with Godhead without the limitations imposed on the relationship as a result of God beings so, “God-like” and imposing. This is Sakhya Rasa.

It can evolve beyond that so that the love intensifies so much that one expresses superiority to the beloved and takes care of him like a parent takes care of a child. This is Vatsalya Rasa.

It can finally evolve to the most intimate state, in which there are no limitations whatsoever on the intimacy of one’s joyous blissful loving relationship with God. This is romantic divine love – the sweetest bliss – therefore called Madhurya Rasa.

Mention that there are further evolutions within that category beyond the scope of current discussion.

6) Name the Vishaya.

There are various forms of Godhead to reciprocate with various people in various relationships. But the higher three relationships become more exclusively focused on the original, intimate form of Godhead known as Krsna, the “all attractive.” Krsna is Godhead at his most open and intimate.

7) Now the sadhya (goal) as been explained, so next explain the sadhana (means to achieve it): Nothing but love creates love. Therefore to attain divine love one needs only to practice it. (sadhana-bhakti-yoga).

The practice mainly centers on Sravana-Kirtana-Smarana: hearing about the beloved, and speaking about the beloved – with the effect of remembering the beloved.

There are many ways of doing this, but extra emphasis is given on the most effective way: nama-sankirtana – coming together with others who desire to love Krsna and together singing and listening to songs about Krsna, especially about his sweet name.

There is one particular Mantra, the “maha-mantra” especially suited and empowered for this practice:

Hare Krsna, Hare Krsna
Krsna Krsna, Hare Hare
Hare Rama, Hare Rama
Rama Rama, Hare Hare

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Sex Before Cameras

Sex before cameras must have been better When it was purely a sensual act and there were no expectations on how it should look or sound only how it should feel There in the dark nothing but electric skin and silken hair and the breath of the day whistling lukewarm into ears from wet lips We stop in the midst of this most holy act and think Wait, this isn’t right How does this look This isn’t loud enough flashy enough This isn’t what its like We do this in vain All based on some greedy old man with desperate young people and hours of footage to waste Product shipped off to factories to take our money and make us hate the mothers of our sons and fathers of our daughters 

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Incarceration makes the heart grow fonder

You’ve never seen two humans look at each other the way they do in the visiting area of a medium security federal prison.

Recently I’ve been visiting a friend of mine who made some incredibly poor decisions and ended up in one of these facilities. For those who’ve never been, going to see a loved one is a long, arduous process that makes the airport security check seem fun.

You may only enter the visiting area with one key (to your car presumably), your I.D., and under $20 for the most horrendous vending machine snacks I’ve ever seen. You have to remove your shoes and coat and pass through a metal detector. If the detector goes off then you’re subject to a full pat-down.

Once in the room you still have to wait for whomever you’re visiting to clear several security check-points. This generally takes anywhere from 30-45 minutes.

So, while sitting there waiting for my friend, I had time to take in my surroundings. Every time I’ve gone, the thing that’s stuck out to me the most is the way that couples look at one another. You’d think that the strain incarceration and bleak circumstance under which they see one another would bog down the time they spend in tiny plastic chairs in a room full of other people. But every time I’m there I see, without fail, people of all different ages and walks of life gazing at one another like Narcissus in a mirror.

I don’t know what’s going on with any of them, I have no doubt some less then endearing traits brought the both of them to that place. I would even feel the fool to think that every one of those women are dutiful pursuing chastity in anticipation of their man’s release. But none of that cynicism matters in the visiting room. All that matters is that these people are near one another. Can touch, and kiss, and stare at eyes that move and tear up and smile.

Maybe I’m hopeless, maybe I’m over-dramatic, but if you ever want your faith renewed in the profound nature of human affection, go hang out in what the Wu-Tang Clan referred to as “the belly of the beast”.

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